I like to keep things short and simple but since your thoughts matter on this subject, I'm going to tell the whole story so you know more.
There is this guy I went out with once in high school 13 years ago. When he found out I was getting a divorce a few months ago, he looked me up on fb and we didn't talk much but he it was clear he was interested. I went to church a few weeks ago and I get a tap on my shoulder and it's him. I said hey and gave him a side hug. In the week or so he text me almost every day, he flirted a little bit. Then his texts stopped all last week. But then he "poked" me on Facebook this past Friday and I poked back. Although I wondered if he poked me by accident. I even asked him lol. Also he had said in a previous text that next time he saw me in church he would sit by me. So he did texted me and asked if I was at church. I was and he came sat by me just this past Sunday. I wasn't even expecting him to because I thought maybe he lost interest although I couldn't figure out why. BUT...here is what's odd: he looked really uncomfortable for some reason. He would not look at me or anything. Matter of fact, he appeared to be looking for someone else. He sat by me but avoided me? I wasn't even expecting to see him. (It's a HUGE church) So after church I just got my stuff and walked out, we didn't say a word. Then all of a sudden I get a text asking if I wanted to go out to eat lunch with him (our first "date" I guess). I'm confused but I let it go. I don't bring it up. So I did lunch with him and I thought it went well. I don't hear from him Sunday night or Monday. So I decided to send him a fb message Monday night and this is what I said "Hey, just want to say thank again for lunch yesterday. It was great catching up with you and meet your dog. Hope you have a great week." 2 minutes later he responds: "Yeah, I had fun too."
I am totally confused. I'm getting mixexd signals. Someone please tell me what's going on?!
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Ever consider that he may feel like he's getting "mixed signals" from you? Just say or do something to remove any doubt in his mind that you're interested (if you are).0