Girls , Are there any off you not dating like you should because of previous bad dates , experiences etc and don't want that again ?. So you avoid dates , like your too busy, Don't go out etc
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I had a string of really bad relationships that basically left a horrible taste in my mouth regarding relationships.
It's been well over 2 years since my last relationship ended badly and I still don't really want to get back out there yet.
I have my moments when I feel lonely and want someone to cuddle with or hang out with, and of course sex, but really, I've been much happier not dating than I ever was while I was dating. I was pretty miserable, actually. Everything about me made me miserable, my boyfriends, myself, the circumstances of it all... everything.
Basically, I always found myself with men I wasn't very compatible with. But I'd doubt myself, thinking I was just overreacting about [insert whatever here] and I stayed with each of them way longer than I should have, which wasn't long to begin with.
I still think my first really fucked me up. He knowingly took my virginity (I was 24 and crazy about him), and the next day he dumped with text message saying I'd been too easy. I was hurt, upset, humiliated, I felt stupid and naive, everything you could imagine. And it only got worse from there, so yeah... my past relationships definitely made me not want another.1
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