I've known this girl for a long time, yet she sometimes cuddles with me. but she also told me she would never date or sleep with me.
Why would a girl do this to a man? why?
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If you have feelings for her, as you clearly do, speak up, or continue to be tortured. She probably doesn't realize that you feel that way for her and so she's seeing you as a comforting friend and figures you feel that way too. Most girls are decent and don't just 'use' guys in that way, like some of the others here are suggesting. Think about it, you've probably known her for long enough that you know she wouldn't do that to you on purpose. Speak up!0