I met this guy online and we talked non stop. We text nearly 300 texts a day and talked between 30-1 hr on the phone everyday. So we finally met yesterday. We had a blast. We did kiss, and I felt sparks. According to him, he did too. We didn't have sex either. So today he text me saying he had fun. I forgot to mention, before he went home we made plans to see each other this upcoming Monday. So now its the day after date night and I barely heard from him. It takes him hours to respond and I've been initiating almost all contact. He already said he has no plans or work this weekend. I'm hoping he is recouping from being out late and the work week. Does this scenario sound like he could have played me? Or am I just being the typical over analyzing chick lmao. Thanks ahead of time :)
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You have displayed the first symptoms of what I call "the crazies" that a lot of my female friends have. Usually when they hit around 25. Essentially, they become over-analytical and create all these fantasy fairy tales about why the guy is no longer responding to her texts within 5 seconds.
In a normal healthy relationship, he should not need to answer a text within 5 seconds. People these days play this stupid texting headgame, where the girl or guy will not text back until they hear back. I can bet that you are texting him once...waiting for a reply...and refuse to text him a 2nd time until you hear back from him. If he's busy doing something or with friends or family, he does not want to check his phone every second because ITS RUDE!
The solution is quite simple.
Put down the damn text messaging and give him a call and talk to him like normal people do. Why text him 5 words and wait an hour for a response and drawing it out for hours, when you can spend 5 minutes chatting and making the plans final.0