This guy and I have been texting often. We haven't hung out because I'm on Christmas break and out of town. All my friends tell me to wait for him to text me and sound excited when he does, if I were a guy I would be discouraged if I always had to text first.
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Yes. The first few times I am pursuing a girl and trying to gain her interest so it is fine if I text first. As soon as she has gained even a slight interest in me It would be very encouraging for her to text first to let me know that she want to get to know me as much as I want to get to know her. If I always text first I probably might get discouraged even if she says she likes me. I'd feel as though if I don't reach out to her then she isn't thinking about me/us. Like "out of sight and out of mind"0