Ok so out of sleepiness, I allowed the guy I'm crushing on to kiss my neck when we were alone in the car. When I get sleepy, it's equivalent to me being tipsy in a way, I don't think straight. Anyway, he's kissing my neck and he goes lower and then sucks on my boob but he doesn't finger me or anything and I pull back when he sucks on my boob to make him stop. And then we just look at each other like "What?" and then I hug him and he kisses me on the neck again before going to his house. I feel like I totally messed up and made it easy for him to get me. I'm not easy but I wasn't expecting him to just lunge for my boob, even though it felt good, he just got to it so easily. URGH! I feel so stupid. I'm trying to make it a challenge for him and not be such a tease but like what we just did, necking and then the boobs, ugh, feels like I teased him. Can I even be able to go back to playing hard to get now? I don't want it to be easy for him to get me but I really feel like I f*cked up the plan now.
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I guess this is a common strategy for women huh. I personally would get frustrated trying to pursue a girl that constantly made it a challenge but idk. I think you can go back to doing whatever you want to do. He doesn't have a right to touch you obviously. I don't know if this will mess up the strategy you're using though. Honestly though, it seems like the game you're playing makes it really complicated. Do you drop the game once you're together or does it last for the relationship?1
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