I'm 18 and female.
I recently brokeup with my second boyfriend( who kinda guilt tripped me into dating and well I lost his friendship as well. I'm getting over mourning as it was his friendship I missed rather than our romantic relationship.
I find I am happier when I'm single and more content and confident. I can think with clarity and not worry that I have to compromise constantly for someone else.
I do crave snuggling, kisses and physical affection but most my when I see itin media or in public. I miss it just a slither.
Otherwise I am at peace alone and not tied down. I never want to date again unless I feel the absolute spark or genuine liking of them, which I really haven't ever found in anyone.
I ponder if this content and confidence in being single means I'm destined to be forever alone ( not that I'm in any hurry not at all haha) I just tend to see how my parents or other family members were best friends and well I've never had that.
I would like someone who gets me and we click mentally and can keep up with me.
I still take care of my friends, mostly guys, it almost seems like I fancy them I do so much nice stuff but really they like me but I never want to date because it makes everything complicated.
I lose confidence when in a relationship and I feel owned.
So what are your opinions
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it does NOT mean you are destined to be alone, honestly it seems like you are in a healthier state to be in a relationship than someone who is desperate. but I do feel a bit concerned that in a relationship you lose confidence. it seems like you have some past relationship issues to iron out. maybe a therapist would be good for you1