I don't even know how to describe this type of guy, but I've had it happen to me a few times now.
They give me their number and say things like "let me know when you're going to be around and maybe we can hangout" instead of just being like "hey wanna hang out this weekend?"
Basically I end up feeling like I have to chase them. Like there's never a set plan or we never hang out unless I plan it. Or they won't text or call but when I text/call them we'll talk for hours and are super into it.
It seems like they're into me so I do plan stuff and I guess give chase. But then that makes them lose interest. So what's the best way to pursue guys like this?
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Guys are scared of rejection just like girls. This comments may very well be there way of minimizing the rejection if you don't want to hang out. They can play if off a lot better than if they were to ask you directly if you wanted to hang out and you said no.
The key is to give them a little bit without going into a full on chase. So you might text them back, "in town" with a winky face like you girls do...don't do all the work for him, but let him know hey there is some interest there.2