A few months ago I used to see a guy I found good looking in the grocery shop fairly often, he would make eye contact ,turn after me and follow me around the aisles but he wasn't creepy about it.It was interesting as he did make me feel a little shy and like a teenager as he is very manly but I'm not a teenager anymore for a couple of years now lol. I then met his brother who is a year younger then him recently at the gym and really fancy him more and we have flirted. Occasionally I still see the first guy and he makes eye contact like before and smiles but other times he ignores me completely ( he also has a girlfriend so its not like he is available but I never see him with her) I have swapped numbers with his brother but I'm not sure if his brother would try and interfere as he does seem to like to boss his younger brother around when I have seen them together. To be fair, the first guy did have a long term girlfriend of over a year when he was looking at me and flirting in the shop ( I saw on Facebook since we have mutual friends lol) so he has no right to be annoyed in any sense. Since I have never technically done anything with the first guy would it be acceptable for me to go on a date with his brother if he does ask or would the first guy get jealous? I know guys have rules about dating friends exes but I'm hardly an ex lol
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depends on the guy and the relationship his girlfriend.
if their relationship (the dude and his gf) is serious he really shouldn't care. but if their relationship isn't all that serious or committed he may still like you and hold a grudge if you started dating his brother.
Me personally probably wouldnt' care but I don't know your situation specifically. I would talk to the brother who is single and sort of feel him out and find out what he thinks his brother might think. ultimately it only matters what you and the guy you want to date thinks.1