Ok so I'm 14 and my friend is dating this guy and she wants me to go on a date with her and to date this guys Freind but I'm really worried I barely know this kid he goes to a different school and we've only texted he's also 16 and in really worried honestly I don't know what to do so this won't be awkward because every time I play itout in my head it's wrong so any advice would be awesome
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Look it as a group hangout. I know this feels like a huge deal, but know that stuff like this becomes fairly routine when you're older, and that you will meet lots of guys as time continues. Just relax as much as you can and have fun! Get ready with your friend, that way you can prepare beforehand.
I also feel the need to point out that while two years isn't much of a difference in the grand scheme of life, the maturity/ awareness level between a 14 year old and 16 year old is significant. That being said, know what you're comfortable with before you go out, and stick with that. Don't let anyone try to talk you into doing more than you want to do. You have every right to say no to any physical advances, and doing so does not make you a loser.
I'm not trying to mom you, but I felt the need to make sure that you know that...teenage boys can be stupid.
Relax, have fun, and know that this isn't the end all be all. :)0