So I'm 17, I've never kissed a girl using tongue and I haven't kissed a girl at all since I was 7. I've had some opportunities but I always freezed out of fear for some reason and it kept being delayed.
I'm afraid I will be rejected over a bad kiss. Or worse, that the girl in question would spread rumours about it. In your experience, is this sonething that can actually happen?
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I used to feel the exact same way, but trust me, it comes naturally! Just keep it simple (no tongue) until you start to get the hang of it. If you're uncomfortable, let the other person lead! And honestly, you're so young that the girl is certainly nervous as well, and is probably more focused on how she's doing. Your first one might be a little bit awkward, not gonna lie, but you can pick it up quickly. As for possibly spreading rumors, like I said you're so young that most people your age don't have enough experience to differentiate between good and bad kissing. Just relax, keep it simple, and go slowly.