Split up with my ex 5 months ago and finding the break up very hard. She was my first love and. My emotions have been very up and down. I do find it hard at times to cope but it didn't help sleeping with my ex a couple of times a few weeks ago.
Anyone one night I went to a work do got drunk and sent her this message ...
I have finally realized the true person who you are..I have never disregarded any person in my life because I didn't think it would be possible. You are selfish and only care about yourself! I want to thank you for ending it and stopping me from making the worst decision in my life. You have manipulated my feelings and others to succeed your own..this makes you the worst of the kind.. Horrible Two faced! This is closure for me and I can finally say after two years..I do not love a person like this anymore and I can see why, you have opened my eyes to selfishness and greed! Best wishes please change for your own sake.
I was speaking from the heart and I guess it was just an emotional outburst induced with alcohol.
Is the message to harsh or just honest. How would you feel if you received a text like this
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I commend YOU for your honesty, and wish more guys were as honest, regardless of what the situation is. If this was some sort of "closure" for you, then I hope it worked. Many times, we can "pour our hearts out" better when having a few...the honesty is even better---and the person "on the other end" gets the hint. If I hurt someone I had been with, it would have left me open mouthed and thinking for awhile---maybe it would be time for me to change WHO I AM and how I treat "the ones I love." Before I had gotten married, I did the same thing(in a text)to a man I had been seeing for a year. I had put him to a big test just before New Years, and come to find out, he failed miserably! So two days after HIS TEXT, I sent one of my own---and believe me, this left him "open mouthed and thinking about his ways", I can tell you...I never had heard back from him, because to this day, he is still probably standing there with his mouth WIDE open and guilty as hell! Which was MY intention, much like yours...Gooooood for you, sweetie! It's a new year, find a new girl, and this time, someone worthy of "your sweet words".0