I've got a question
For two months or so,I've had contact with a girl.
We met via Tinder, bur started texting an using what's app soon after that.
The conversations are fun and diverse.
And last week Monday, we went on a date, in my town.
We are planning to go on a date in her town, we don't know when.
But since the date, I started having feelings for her.
But here's the catch:
She recently got single (a month ago), because her ex cheated on her.
So our conversations started when he and she were breaking up.
And she told me, she still doesn't want to get committed in a new relationship, because she's just single. (I just asked out of curiosity, back then had no feelings for her yet, like I do now)
So should I tell her: what I feel for her, and so yes: when should I tell her?
But Sunday the texting got weird for me.
She told me she went to a friendsplace (a guy friend).
They ate together and watched a horror movie.
She fell asleep in his arms, and they slept together (platonically, she said)
So I asked her: did you have sex?
She: No, we were brave this time, that doesn't mean its going to happen in the near future.
Me: So you are friends with benefits?
She: No, because there are no benefits yet.
What does this mean?
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Being she just has come out of a new break up, don't rush into anything heavy with her by telling her your feelings. You are just getting to know one another, so go slow for the moment. You don't want to scare her to the point where she is feeling smothered and confused by yet another man in her life. Remember, she is still licking her fresh wounds from this other guy, and being she has been hurt, she probably wants to hold off on anything "committed" at the moment. Take your time, get to know one another. If the time would finally come where she is feeling the magic again, I am sure YOU will be the first one she WILL TELL. Let things "just happen"...3