Okay there is this girl I have been seeing (dating, whatever you want to call it) for the past three months. There have a couple times where we spoke about where we are heading. She told me she likes the way things are going and she likes me and that she is only seeing me. We kept going on dates for a few weeks after that, but I am still wondering where that puts me really. No definite answer and still just a pretty vague answer. Then I spoke to her again, but tells me she really likes me. That she just wants to be friends first before she jumps into the whole relationship thing. So in my head I am confused, we date and do all that good stuff (we haven't had sex yet, which is on me because I rather wait till I get married. I know a little odd at my age, but hey that is one thing that makes me unique). Right now all I am going off is her word that she is seeing only me, which confuses the hell out of me. If we are friends first, then what the hell is really stopping you from seeing someone and me from seeing someone (other than me just feeling plain guilty, because I am really head over heels for this girl and she knows it). Maybe someone can clarify this for me?
P.S. Normally when I hear friends first I am gone, but for some reason I still want to stick around.
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Well maybe she means take things slow like start there and end up dating I'm not really sure women they are really good at getting in your head and messing things up as Dane Cook would say they are brain ninjas. I would ask her what she means by this who better to clarify then the person who said it right. I mean it sounds like she likes you and you obviously like her if she is only seeing you that must mean you and her are an item but then again lol I don't know women are confusing I would ask her discuss it with her and clear things up.0