Men today are wussies. Men today aren’t very resilient. They don’t know how to handle rejection or failure, so they avoid rejection or failure by not asking women out on dates.
I am proud say I am one of them, but I don't the confidence to ask girls out. But I have decide to get help for it. I am sick and tired of being the same old person.
I believe if you ask the right women out, she won't play games. I think there are some men, are messing with the wrong type of women, just as women get messed around with the wrong type of men. So stop with the bullshit, and stop attacking each other.
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I prefer men to receive gestures with grace, ver them making the gestures themselves.
i like to go after things if I'm interested. I have no problem asking someone out. however a lot of guys react strangely because they feel insufficient because they were not the ones to do it.
i really don't care whether I'm asked out or not. id just like men to be appreciative of my effort. whether they are interested or not. I e saying no instead of getting upset. or of course if they are interested,saying yes, instead of pretending they are not interested because I'm the one who asked.
i don't think guys are wussies. I just think many guys are too obsessed with the fear of being considered a wuss. and a lot of women and men don't help mattes by maintaining ridiculous sex-based expectations, that are very confusing. and send mixed messages.
i think effort should be respected and shyness should be accepted.. regardless of sex. whoever can should. and whoever does should be appreciated.1