I am a laid back dude. I go to college, learn about cool stuff, chill with my homies, go to the skate park, hit the gym occasionally, and produce music in my home studio. It has never occurred to me to pursue a relationship with a girl because I get enough love from my family.
I don't get why people place so much importance on dating, and particularly monogamy. If I could bring joy and have sex with 3,4 or 5 girls instead of just one, would I not be making more people happy? The only thing that limits people from doing this is jealousy, I don't think I should only give my sexual affections to just one lucky individual, and personally I could not give a damn if a girl cheated on me or not.
I want to pread the love to as many people as I can. I have 3 girls right now that I could have sex with just with one phone call, and to me that is much more awesome than getting sexy with just one girl full time. I get to pick (girl, 1, 2, or 3, who will it be?)
Girls to me are like skittles, it is a way better experience to taste all flavors than to just, say, have a pack of just the red ones. I like the red, green, orange, all flavors. Variety is the spice of life, and for me that statement is analogous to the dating game.
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When you have sex with more then one girl you have a higher chance of catching STD's or AID's and if you do catch it and do not find out about it and continue your lifestyle with other girls they can catch STD's and AID's which will not only ruin your life but theirs. If they do get married or want to have children the girls that caught the STD or AID's will pass it on to their children. Do you know what these type of diseases do to people it makes their immune system shut down overtime and they suffer just as badly if not worse as people with cancer as all of their organs shut down because of the disease and it is a slow and painful death. Do you want to bring that much suffering to all the girls you have sex with if you have STD's to their friends and family or do you not care at all. They may want to achieve something in life that you don't want to. Don't waste some else life for your self-fish purpose.
The reason that you are so self-fish I believe is because you are suffering from some sort of emotional pain and to hide from that pain you take pleasure from hurting young innocent girls who are naive now but want something from life. By degrading them an treating them as if they are skittles, you are treating yourself the same way and degrading not only who you are but your physical, emotional, mental, intellectual and spiritual well-being. You will never find true happiness this way it comes from understanding, being compassionate, and empathy which come from the heart not from physical pleasures. Physical pleasures over time die down because of age. If you solely rely on this there will come a time that you will not be able to have sex what then makes up the person? Is it sex and physical pleasure or is it other characteristics that come from the heart?
People often enjoy pleasures in order to hide from pain but hiding it does not help at all. When you get to the point of involving others in your self-fish ways and think that by having sex with all of them you make them happy you are being delusional and prideful. Being prideful can cause greed, envy, wrath, and hatred to occur within the depths of your heart and instead of doing what is right you end up doing what is wrong and in the end you allow your conscience to become stuttered and twisted which then hurts you as a person.0