Girls would you rather know where the guy will take you on the first date or be caught by surprise?
A: You would rather know
B: You would rather be caught by surprise
C: Neither of the above. You want to have at least a general idea where are you going and/or what to wear
- I would rather be caught by surpriseVote A
- 50/50 - he should at least give me a general idea where we are going or how to dressVote B
- I would rather knowVote C
Most Helpful Girl
I think it'd be better to know beforehand so you can avoid awkward moments or being dressed unproperly (voted C for that). This is specially considering you haven't gotten to know each other enough to come up with a guaranteed good surprise. Better don't risk it, you know what I mean?
If, on the other hand, the girl you're going out with used to be your friend or colleague or something that let you get to know each other well, it just might be a good idea because you're way more likely to find somewhere related to an inside joke, where you met for the first time, a hidden spot, in short a very special place :)3