I Met a guy last February I danced with him acouple times & talked that night for a little bit but he was really shy. We talked on Facebook we hanged out with the same group of friends & he was my cousins bestfriend after awhile he started to message me after everytime he saw me & he'd say "you looked good today :)" or he'd ask why I left early . & sometimes he'd message me out of nowhere with a "hey how have you been" . He never talked to me in person unless it was to ask me to dance & once he asked to hold my hand while dancing. But he had a few drinks so I blamed the alcohol.
After awhile my birthday passed he wished me a happy birthday & messaged me the next day asking if id accept a late birthday gift which was going out to dinner. & my sister & bestfriend convinced me to go so I was really nervous because we were both shy. The date went great & we texted for about 2 weeks & he asked me to hangout again & I couldn't that night because it was late & I had to work the next day so I said I couldn't & he said he understood.. I really liked him & all & he told one of our friends that he wanted to get to know me on a serious level but he never messaged me after.
He likes my pictures on instagram fb & my fb statuses but he doesn't say anything to me no message no text what so ever its been 2 months & I saw him in person again on new years day & he said happy new years but didn't look at me in the face . Did I hurt him? If so how can I fix it? I'm really shy & I'm never the type to text a guy first I don't know why its just how I am. How can I message him without making it awkward? :(
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It seems to me, with all my experience in men, sweetie, he is not that "into you"---or into a " level" of just ANYTHING, if he hasn't even messaged you in over 2 months. I don't see here where you offended him or anything just because you had told him it was late and you had to work the next day. I don't think you hurt him, no. And as far as New Years Day went, it sounded as though it was now "awkward" for him to see you in person, because his feelings for you had changed, meaning not wanting to take things to the "next level." The only thing you can really do at this point, is either message him on Facebook a "Hi, how have you been?" Or okay, as a last resort, simply text him a "hi" as well. Wait and see if he responds.2