He generally keeps his mobile with him as I found flirty texts from a work colleague on it when I borrowed it a year and a half ago which I was not happy about and we split up for a while but worked through it. He left his phone upstairs last night and I know it was wrong but a message came through from his recently single male friend. I looked and messages were are you married yet? His answer was married? No, I can go out when I like but am never asked. No problem with him going out. He went out with friend and stayed over as was drunk, he told me they were celebrating a friend life who had died and it was anniversary. That was a lie... Also he has now booked a lads holiday at butlins in November but he hasn't told me or mentioned anything at all. I have not said anything as don't want him to know that iv have looked at his phone. I find it hurtful and disrespectful and wonder where this relationship is going as was just starting to rebuild trust. I know that looking at phone was wrong but yup I did it! Any advice would be welcome we are both 45...
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So he made some plans with the boys and hasn't told you yet. . . What if he had told you? Would you have been upset or angry with him? If you answer yes to that question, then of course he's going to wait to tell you. If he waits til closer to the date of, he'll have that much less time to have to listen to you bitch about it.
His friend asked him if he was married yet, and he answered no. That's true, right? I'm not quite sure what the big deal is there, either. Maybe his friend is assuming once he's married, he won't be able to go out with anyone anymore. I think that'd be really controlling and silly, and not very much fun, but to each their own.
I think you may be over reacting a tad.0
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