I don't like dating in general. It's always awkward, I don't like hanging out with someone I don't really know that well and trying to come up with all these interesting things to say while deciding if their interesting things are attractive to me or not. It's too much at once.
I prefer to just hang out unofficially, telling stories that just naturally come to my mind and not expecting a relationship to happen any time soon, or even at all. I like dealing with the feelings that emerge on their own, not coercing them to come out and testing whether they like the situation or not.
I just want to know if this is a weird opinion to have. Would you rather wait for the emotions and respond like I do or do something first and see if the emotion responds like what normally happens in the dating scene?
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I think I agree with you, I've never been much of a 'dating' person. I always thought it made things kinda awkward when I knew from the start that the guy wanted a relationship or something, it made me feel pressured I guess. So I didn't enjoy it very much, therefore I didn't have good experiences with it :p
It's a lot nicer just hanging out and seeing what happens. The guy I'm interested in now has been like my closest friend for the past year, I've always told him everything and we can hang out and have fun even when we're doing absolutely nothing. So it was easier in a way to be with him as more than friends, because we already knew each other well and we're comfortable around each other.0