okay so I met this guy at a bar, anyways he invited me and some friends to go back with his friends house to drink more. We all do, and end up staying over.. me and him sleep in the same bed and kiss a little but mostly just talk all night. Anyways he gets my number and I leave early. The next day he messages me asking me to go for a drink with him, I decline because I just got out of a relationship. but we still message back and forth everyday, huge paragraph texts and you can tell we are really clicking. ( he initates contact expect maybe once or twice) So I agree after a week that I will go out with him because we obviously are hitting it off like crazy. So we set a date but he gets called to work, he works away a lot so I understand. Anyways he messages me saying hell take pictures of where he's going for work and to not worry he still wants our date. So he goes to a different country for work, he texts me when he's changing flights and when he arrives. He sends me pis of where he's staying and is telling me all about it still texting me everyday eagerly. Anyways I get this notion in my head that I am playing to easy to get I readly apply and always pretty prompt. Anyways I ended up deleting Facebook because of the relationship I just ended and too much of me and him on it. The new guy texts me saying did you delete faceboook? I never reply because I wanted to make him sweat a little bit. Anyways I finally reply 13 hours later but when I was out for drinks silllly I know. So its one am my time 8 am his time and I just say " yes I deleted Facebook, I don't like Facebook all that much. Good morning by the way!" and he never replied... so me and my friends decide to go to the bar dance whatever..bar is over and my friend says this guy she is seeing is giving us a ride home, he happened to be with two other buddies too. Anyways I check to see if my new guy texted me and threw it back in my purse ( nothing still and was 3am my time so 10am his time) I retartedly left the message open and when I threw it in my purse it pocket dialed him! He heard 6 minutes of the whole car ride and convo we were having. I don't know if it went to voicemail or if he just listened. Either way 6 minutes. I wasn't saying anything bad in the convo but it was guys trying to get my number and asking all about me and everything. I didn't give my number out or flirt was just making convo... so now he hasn't texted me its only been a day. but he would always reply to me instantly and initiate everything and really enjoyed our convos. I'm afraid he thinks I was going home with guys or that I'm a drunk mess or something... Should I just wait for him to contact me.. if he will. Or do I text and apologize?..Would you be over it?
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I never understood this... women need to go back to logic school or something...
Youre not playing too easy to get... you said he usually readily replies back to your texts so its not weird at all that youd do the same it just keeps the flow of conversation going.
You were texting back and forth hot and heavy with paragraphs of text he goes out of town you delete your Facebook at the same time you're "making him sweat" this is all change and none of it looks any good to him if you're usually back and forth texting and then all of a sudden you're not he's thinking something happened.
The next day he hears you drunk with guys hitting on you and even if you didn't give them your phone number or go home with a lot of guys will interpret polite conversation to be deeper than it is--he heard you "flirting" with other guys
Youve gotta tell him that you got caught up playing stupid games or maybe tell him that you took some bad advice from a friend... if you can't swallow your pride it wasn't worth it from the beginning0
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