So I've been seeing this guy for just over a month. Every time we go out in public its like we are not together. There's no holding hands, kissing (even on the cheek) or cuddling to keep me warm. He says he doesn't like public affection. I've never been with a guy that doesn't like it. How can I get him to feel comfortable enough to show affection?
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look my ex wife did the same thing to me for 6 years.
i got no kisses or hugs no nothing after my son was born.and now I'm separated and going through devorce too. it could be a cultural thing sweetie . but in the same token ask yourself this. does he really love me for me or just using me. try to kiss him on the cheek and see what you get.
be open with your feelings but the minute you get nothing back from him just go on and do your own thing. I ended up walking away from a marrage after being told I was not aloud to kiss my own wife at all and I was married to her.work that out.
i say if you get nothing back in return from him as for emotions goes just end it andwalk away. otherwise your hurting your self more and you will end up with depression like I did.
now I'm alone and see my kids once every second weekend and that too sucks.
heart ache sweetie is the last thing you need. no emaotions walk away from it. trust me.my x wife could not even pour hotwater into a cup.0