Do you think that people will get more jaded or more desperate when they get into their 20s or 30s and even beyond, when they still haven't found the person they want in their life?
Are you in that life stage right now, or what do you foresee yourself becoming?
For me, I feel that the older you get, the harder it is to form memories and also bond with another person. In a sense more tired and wary. So that makes me quite desperate right now in my 20s. Because I have more opportunity when I am younger, and I really like to spend my youth (or what's left of it) and the pains of going into adulthood with this person. In a sense, settling early so that I can give more time for the relationship to mature.
- JadedVote A
- DesperateVote B
- NothingVote C
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i'm 32 and happily single. I was more desperate in my 20's then now. I know my biological clock is ticking and I still have a desire for three children, all of a separate natural pregnancy. but I've come to realize that just because I haven't found the right person(s) yet doesn't mean I should just find someone even if there are no feelings involved so I can have kids. I'm gonna wait. and right now I actually have no desire to be in a relationship.2