I'm not talking about once you're in a relationship. I'm talking about, when "boy meets girl," other than being super hot or totally his type, does a woman really have the opportunity to make a man see you as a romantic partner if he doesn't from the very start. And if he intitially sees you as a possible conquest and nothing more, whether or not you give him reason to believe so, is there ever an opportunity to make him see you as relationship material?
Married guys, in all honesty, do you think your wife just happened to come along at the right time, when you were just tired of it all? Or is there something that made her truly special?
Can men grow attraction like woman can? Or is it so initially about sex that she has no control?
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Women have more control over it than men do, but most just don't take advantage of that power. Women who assume the typical passive role, just waiting for a man to take notice, have little control.
When we met, my wife actively showed interest in me, which played a big role in us getting together. I probably would never have noticed her if she hadn't. As a guy I can tell you that most of us really have no clue how to interpret the behavior of most women.0