Hi everyone, very low right now :(
I had a date tonight but he flaked and disappeared. He's still online but he hast contacted me. It's almost 6 pm and I'm broken right now.
This is not a first or second date, that makes me more angry! We've known each other for 7 months already.
I don't want to text him or anything, but I'd love to know what to do.
He told me he was almost sure about our date on Friday, but he hasn't called to cancel or anything. How could this be?
We were getting closer than ever, and now he's pulling away from me, leaving me heartbroken. He's a commitment phobe.
PLease, what to do now?
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Rejection absolutely hurts in whatever form it comes in. But more so when it's from someone that you thought had enough respect for you to at least be honest that he wasn't interested or whatever the case may be. I think that's your answer, if he doesn't respect you enough to text you his canceling or he's over it or whatever you have to see that as a sign. Time to treat him as he has treated you. This is going to sound tough….you are disposable to him, you are not a priority and as a result you are not important enough to him for him to be willing to break down his own walls. I know I hate hearing that when it happens to me but you already know the answer and you know its true. You deserve better, you will find better and there WILL be someone else. You just can't settle for someone that doesn't put you first. If you feel you need an explanation then send a text but I think he's giving you a glaring answer. Actions speak louder than words. Sorry my dear but based on what you've said, he seems to be not worth your time.0