Or do you fall in love with them all eventually? If you do decide to pursue a relationship beyond just dating.
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This really depends on how you classify love. I used to have a similar confusion. The closest thing to love I felt was with a guy that was very wrong for me. After coming out of a LTR with him I realized that I could develop those feelings for pretty much anyone. That that was only one aspect of love. The partnership/friend/allies part. Now I think that love has many parts and it's rare to find all parts. I'm willing to compromise on the physical attraction part but I know that it makes the relationship a little unstable. In reality I may never marry until I find all parts in the one person but try not to waste too much time where I am attached but there's a vital part completely missing. If you ask me true love is about as likely as winning the lotto. Seen as there are so many life long marriages there's proof that people can be happy with an incomplete love. What you have to ask yourself is if you are one of them and if not if you can be equally happy with the likelihood of spending your life alone.0