Girls complain all the time about men not reading their profile or sending thoughtless emails. But us guys have issues too. One of mine is that I get women to respond to my first email most of the time. But all they do is answer my questions, make no mention of anything in my profile, and don't ask any questions of me.
Do any other guys get this same issue? It just makes me lose interest in them but I get that type of response more than half of the time.
Girls what do you think? Is there any way to encourage a more thoughtful reply? Or if you are guilty of this, what exactly are you expecting of the guy or hope for in a second email?
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Oh yea totally. So many women's profiles say "Don't just say hi" but yet I'll even get first messages like "Hey there :)" or something and I won't even bother replying.
But I will also send a girl a message tailored to their profile and they'll send back a short email answering it and I just won't bother replying.
Here's the thing, most girls make profiles for the attention, not to actually meet anyone. They just want attention. Girls claim it is "Scary" to meet men online yet they make dating profiles anyway and get off to the attention they get. But when it comes down to meeting in person they instantly make up excuses about how it's too scary, but they still want to keep messaging.
I stopped messaging around online and put at the end of my profile not to message me if they can't handle meeting in person. I can't be bothered. I like mature women who know how to date, not a bunch of mindless girls who "complain" about perverts online yet they can't meet a guy because "it's too scary." I also stopped messaging any girl past 5 messages on the site without an exchange in phone numbers. It's lead to a huge increase in the amount of dates I was going on when I used the sites and got rid of all the chicken-shit babies who are wasting so many people's time while the hope for more emails.0