OK I dated this guy for a while and when I refused to sleep with him because he was pushy we ended up not talking for a long time and now he is back to make a long story short could his motive be to get me into bed or what guys some advise he seems sincere about getting together
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Definitely a tricky situation .. How long were you guys dating at first? How long was the break? Has he taken you on dates now? I'll tell you about a similar situation I went though and maybe that can help you out:
I met a guy about 2 years ago. He was amazingly nice and sweet to me. Dinner dates often. He would surprise me often. One night he told me he was going to pick me up and take me somewhere but refused to tell me where. Turned out he was taking me to NYC for dinner and to see the Christmas tree. I was amazed at how nice he was to me considering the fact that we hadn't slept together! That went out for about 3 months. Then I knew that he would want to have sex soon... it's a normal expectation. However, as nice as he was I just wasn't ready for a relationship as I was still very heartbroken from my ex.So, He started to back off after one night I invited him into my apartment. We watched TV and made out but when he tried to take my pants off I stopped him and said I'm not ready. And then I would hear from him every 3 months or so. A couple times I met him with him because we happen to be out in the same place at the same time..Then in November (2 years later) we decided to go out together. At that time my heart break was way over lol. We ended the night and the next night we hung out again and had sex..
Although I didn't think I wanted a relationship with him I still wanted to be respected and I still desired his friendship. I thought maybe it would be a FWB thing... well we ended up having sex two more times and then he totally disappeared ... I told him how I felt and he pretty much didn't care.
Then we saw each other out on NYE and I ignored him. He texted me like "oh you can't say hi on NYE" and I responded with "whos this" ... he was furious.. lol
I wasn't heartbroken over this but honestly I wish I didn't waste my body on him.. He used me.. and the friendship I thought we had.. was all fake.