i have this girl that we are hanging out together a lot but it is clear that something's happening between us like something bigger or more than just hanging out , she has been sharing a lot of secrets with me ,she did even give me her Facebook password , I am trying to take it so slow because I know she still in touch with her ex that he still calls her a lot and she even let me talk to her, we just shared Hello saying ,nothing else,but she told me he told to stop talking to me but she didn't , yesterday we were talking then her phone rang ,it was him,she told me she will be back and she let her sac with me , when she comeback I told her that I do not like the kind of gesture giving me her sac then went to talk to her ex on the phone , then she kind got sad and when he called her again she did dispute with him when we talk just me and her ,i can notice that she is like can not look into my eyes ,our thing has developed a lot and we talk daily on Facebook when we do not have class , she is obviously unable to choose between me and him ,she did imply that a lot of times , even being with him won't make her happy because of his family and the issues she had when she was with him , and for me I am honestly not putting much of hopes into this even I like her , because I do not want to be like surprised or lets say shocked so to speak .
<< I am kind of logical person , I believe in love and feelings but I also use my brain to define if it is a possible love or not <<
i need some people to help me
i am sorry if my post is not helpful a lot
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If it were me I'd speak directly to the jealous ex-boyfriend and ask him what the problem was, why he didn't want her talking to you. Call him out on being jealous and see if he will admit it. If he denies it then ask him not to lie to you and to himself. The main problem, how I see it, is this unpleasant ex lurking over the whole issue. I'd try to get that resolved before I went any further. And if you can't resolve it, maybe it's time to walk away from a messy and volatile situation. People have been killed after getting into situations like this. It's just not worth it, especially in a place like Algeria that I imagine is fairly lawless, with ample access to AK-47s.0