Its been about four months and I still Haven't made out with my boyfriend. I don't know what to do so I'm not comfortable to just jump right in. Its mainly what I'm suppose to do with my tongue. Am I suppose to lick or swirl or what? At this point I'm just annoyed with advice that beating around the bushes. Get graphic if you have to, just explain...
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plain and simple: do what comes naturally. my first frenh kiss was really awkwad. I didn't know the guy that well, but I was infatuated with him. after school I had band practice and he had sports(that was a lie I found out later. this guy was full of them). so one day in between school and afterschool activity, we met in the second wing by the stsircase. thete was a tiny area with a desk, but it was not hidden or anything. so we were talking and he leans in and kisses me. I was in total shock; I'd never been kissed. but I got used to it. then when he told me to open my lips I did, and when I felt his tongue in my mouth I pushed against his chest and backed off. he told me to relax, and I did and he french kissed me again. it felt weird, especially when he wanted me to do it to him. but I did and we stood there making out and people passed by occasionaly but I don't even think they noticed. and the second time was better. and then I didn't kiss again until two years later. he was my first real kiss.
practice makes perfect, and is fun. and some people don't like to french. I kissed a guy in July who didn't do it. so I had to teach him lol. if you don't like frenching don't do it. but it's my preferred kiss.0