I'm 'going out' with this girl for a while now. Once I tried to call it a 'date', but I was rebuffed when she said I'm not quite there yet. But we continue to 'go out' together.
She agreed to be my Valentine's next week, but what am I supposed to do, or rather, what does she expect from me? She still won't let me call it a Valentine's 'date', but rather, 'going out' to celebrate Valentine's.
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I've had girls try to tell me that we weren't going on "dates", that we were just meeting each other as friends, I told them that wasn't what I was looking for. I told them I was looking to date, and if they didn't like it they can just meet someone else. My current girlfriend even tried to pull that on me.
You have to put your foot down and tell it how it is, stop pussy-footing around. Tell her it's either a date, or you don't see each other anymore. Doing this fake friend bullshit is only going to lead to frustration, and the fact that you don't have the balls to tell her so means that she isn't going to be attracted to you.
Girls like men with balls. Grow a pair.
As harsh at that sounds, you'll thank me for it later...0