So I never did the dating online thing but the other night I joined one just to see what happens and a guy messaged me. After talking for a while he asked to see my pics so we exchanged pics. After that he asked if I would hang out with him the next day. I agreed but after agreeing realized it was way too soon. So the next day I told him I couldn't I was too busy. We texted pretty much the entire day and I enjoyed talking to him a lot. He made me laugh and seems really sweet. He asked me if I was done with my errands if I wanted to hang out and I said I couldn't so then he asked about the night and I said I couldn't. Then later he IMed me again asked how I was doing, how my errands were and if I was done and asked If I could hang out. So I said no again. After I said no he would end it and be like ok that's fine.
But I agreed to meet tomorrow. Was this a good idea? or should I wait til later in the week. We agreed to meet at the mall so it's a public place and my friend knows I'm going.
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I generally would exchange several emails with the person to get a better sense on who they are - not just text messages.
I think it's smart of you to meet in a very public place and what I would do is have your one of your friends to text you 30 mins into your meeting him - that gives you an out if you need it. Also if you can, have your friends be around the mall area so when you leave you can possibly meet them so you're not leaving alone.0