My step dad died in February, thought he was in a coma for about a month before that. My mom has recently begun talking to men on online dating sites and is now planning on meeting one in real life. This new guys name RHYMES with my stepdads, and he is balding - just like my step dad was.
My mom keeps asking me if I think it is too early and stuff...I think it might be, she is like, replacing him..
But I don't want to get in the way of her life, I mean, if she wants to date then ...I don't think I should stop her...
Should I let her continue or tell her that I think she is rushing it?
Do you think she is getting back into the dating game too quickly?
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Well for one, some people rebound (horrible word to use I know, but its the best one I could think of to make my point) faster than others.
It could be that the whole name thing and balding thing is a flute, or it could be that she really misses him (your step dad) and since he reminds her of him she wants to be with him.
But, as far as if I think she's moving too fast, nobody can tell anyone if their moving too fast or slow. I'd say as long as she is comfortable with it and is completely over him, I'd say there's nothing wrong with it.
I won't date someone until I'm COMPLETELY over the last person, so I don't bring baggage, so if all of that is in order than I see nothing wrong with her dating.0