So I met this guy on Saturday. He was in the year below me at school and he was out locally for his 19th birthday. It ended up that we played a game of pool together. And he was cuddling me and teasing me a little.
By the end of the night, he took my hand in the bar and said he's walk me home. So he did, and along the way we ended up kissing a good bit. Before he left he asked for my phone number, I don't have a phone so we've used Facebook to chat instead.
Anyway, he asked me to keep our kiss quiet because he wants to avoid an argument with her. I think he broke up with her kind recently (maybe a month or 2 ago, not sure). We've still talked on and off and he keeps asking me what I'm up to and usually let's me know he's 'bored' or 'chilling out'.
I just wonder if I should I take it offensively that he wants me to keep quiet? Why should his ex matter? I'm not sure if it's a good thing he wants me to keep our kiss down low.
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Sweetie, from where I am standing, you should be more concerned about If he might still be seeing his ex. It sounds to me as though there is some hanky panky going on here "behind the scenes kiss," and this is his secret service pact with you as to why he wants your lips zipped.
And being he and you are Now just talking on and off, making it light and not so sweet, is also telling me he would rather "sit home bored and chill out," than be with you on some Saturday night playing pool and------making out under the moonlight.
This sinister smoocher is putting you on hold, and giving you the run around, while he is most likely still doing Facebook chats and ---probably more---with this so-called ex. Sure, he can tell you what he wants you to hear, on and off the cam, but my wise instincts are telling Me, that he is still "kissing and missing" her, while you sit home missing him and ----keeping quiet.
Don't trust him. What you shared after the pool hall closed, was a "one night round of 'kissing a good bit'". Take my word for it, he is stringing you along and will only keep you at arms length on cam, so get used to the face to face facts. He is mostly likely still swapping spit with his hot lips ex.xx1
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