So, I have a boyfriend, but I'm not happy with him and we're on the rocks. I went out last night and I had a blast. I met a guy, and we talked and hung out the entire night. He's a gentleman, makes good money and is covered in tattoos. Everyone kept asking me what the deal was with us.
He's not exactly my type. He's really short-like my height or shorter, he's extremely nice, he's not that cute-but I guess he could grow on me, and he is an avid pot smoker. He said he wakes up before work and smokes an entire bowl, then after work he smokes more. I know that they're trying to pass some laws in a couple of states, but I don't know how I feel about that. He gave me his number, and wouldn't take mine because he said guys will text any girl, but girls are more selective. He walked me to my car, and that was that. Should I call him?
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I'm not meaning to sound so cliche, but what if the shoe was on the other foot. It's obvious that you still have some kind of feelings for your current boyfriend and he still has some feelings for you. If you guys didn't care about one another the two of you wouldn't be together at all and you wouldn't be asking this question. Now if you're not feeling your current boyfriend at all let him know how you feel, let him down gentlely and go kick it with the new guy. I'm not hatin on the new fella because I don't know any of you, but he already has a few strikes against him and you're not dating him yet. If you feel the new guy would be an improvement by all means call him, but if you and your current boyfriend can sit down and resolve the problems that got your relationship on the rocks it sounds like you two have some talking to do before any mistakes get made. It's not about getting greener grass, it's about controling the weeds in your current lawn, however you're a grown ass woman and at the end of the day you're going to do what you want to do. That's just my two cents.3