My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 1/2 months. Things are okay, not so bad. We don't see eachother very often because of our schedules. But it seems that even though we both are busy with work and school, I feel like I'm the only one really trying to set time aside for the both of us. His excuse is always: "Im so sorry babe, I've been so busy". I know he is, but I always believed that if you really cared about someone..you'd make time somehow. Sometimes when he'll call me he'll talk about hanging out with his buddies, but it makes me think..why not hang out with me? he does arrange for us to hang out, once a week, but it seems like a chore..?
We barely stay in contact when we are not together in person. Sometimes we go a whole day without any contact. He left for a family vacation to Mexico yesterday for a week and before he left he said he wants to Skype me (doesn't have his car)...he never arranged it. He said he'd call me before his flight - no call. He apologized for not calling, but yeah.
I know he leads a busy life. But I've talked to him about this and asked if he thinks his life is too busy for a relationship, and he said he doesn't think so. He also said he has so much feelings for me but doesn't know how to show it. Sometimes I even forget I have a boyfriend...
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Hmm...This sounds Just like an episode In my life, with a guy who I was with(actually still are, but long story)..Are they brothers?lol
From my experience with this "busy beaver, no text, no time" tom, you have to play this race with these"horses of another color," or you will end up Never hearing Or seeing them.
In my case, Jordan works 10-12 hours day as a manager of a convenience store, and nites to boot, so out time is very limited, but have managed to make it work, regardless of a few issues. He always suggests getting together, because it is coming out of his wallet, our weekend together, so I don't utter a word.
However, if he gets a bit too confident that I am available too much for him, not a challenge, easy prey, then I find, this "Black Beauty"has to tighten his reins, and teach my stud a lesson.
I Conveniently "disappear" for awhile, telling him I am-----out of town..---so out of His "blinder's eye view," and trophy wife touch, you might say. He Suddenly becomes nervous,stamping his hoof, texting More, sometimes neighing and---nagging. Then on top of everything, he gives me this Snorty, snotty nose attitude, as though I am the one who kicked him in the stomach. Now I am hearing the lecture of how I had better, from now, tell "your husband," he says, Where I am going, how long I will be gone, and when I will be galloping Back to him.. By now, he is real crazy and more babbly and bossy than I am usually used to seeing. But it works, so in essence I keep his "horse manure" from spreading too far. It feels so good to see how he likes riding in My saddle now. And if he's really naughty, No bare back riding either---not for three months.
My motto with today's guys is: If you stoop for this, you'll stand for anything." Might I suggest before you put your horse out to pasture, try this little trick. Try the Houdini act, and give your stud a taste of his own mouthful of hay.xx0