I went on a date with a man 10 years my senior, he took me to the beach, we watched the sunset drinking wine, I got the impression he was trying to get me drunk, kept pouring me more when I said I'd had enough, we kissed and I went home. I didn't hear from him the next week, so I wrote to him, 6 days after our date, our communication was through Facebook. Anyway we talked the convo got hot and steamy. The next night I implied we should meet up, this was about 10pm, he saw my message but didn't write back until 2am with a 'would have been nice' and 'Youve been racing through my mind all day'. I wrote back the next morning suggesting this isn't going to work. Our interest levels were clearly not on the same page. I would have thought I'd have heard from him more or a date would have been organized the next weekend. Am I expecting too much?
Is it too much too assume an interested man would ask you on a date weekly?
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I don't think it is, I get that people can be busy sometimes... but I don't think it's unrealistic to want someone you're seeing to spend time with you.0
It seems like you haven't been out with him that many times. Was getting drunk on the beach a 1st date?
Anyway, it doesn't look like you're dating, you've just been out once or twice. Even if he likes you, he doesn't know you well enough to make you a priority yet. Give it time and don't jump to conclusions so fast.0
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