I haven't had a date in over 3 years why?

When I was 21-26 girls almost threw themselves at me. I


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Most Helpful Girl

  • A lot of factors:

    Maybe you were hotter more handsome before and you've aged quickly.

    You are the kiss and tell guy. Any girl sleeps with you and then you rat her out by making yourself seem like a hot shot. After a while girls learn to stay away from you. If that's the case, go live somewhere else and don't talk who you have slep with in the new place.

    You are insistent with women in your age group but now those women are looking for something serious: if that is the case change venues and flirt with 20 year olds.

    Something dramatic has hapened with you in the last three years which has lowered or confidence and self-esteem which is key in attracting women.

    It is now common knowledge where you live that you are not a good person.

    Without any info, I can't tell but these things may be happening.

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What Girls Said 8

  • Are you rocking the beer gut now?

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  • If you are your 30's I might assume that you are single by choice and not bother with you.

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  • What works for me is to see what the differences in who you were and what you surrounded yourself with form then and now, and try to get back to being that person.

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  • We don't know you so there could be a slew of reasons. Maybe its the energy you are putting out on the regular...who knows but you. All you can do is look within first...

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  • Well you didn't put anything about yourself. Maybe screwing around is what those girls wanted but now are looking for something for.

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  • Your personality is too average and you just don't know how to talk to a girl

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  • well, some men don't chat and chatter and they don't dance. Think back on your younger years: What were you doing differently then you are now? hope you find your answer.

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  • well ask yourself why but I am the same but I travel alot

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What Guys Said 5

  • A larger and larger percentage of girls are married or committed to someone else as you get past 25. It's not your fault that less of them are interested in you.

    You're going to have to try going to places where single girls go...maybe join outdoor activities clubs for singles, and that sort of thing. Waht about your married friends? Surely they have people they'd like to match up with you.

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  • My dear friend,it happens. Age matters but do not worry.Just look around closely and you will find someone around your age. Good Luck.

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  • 3 years? Please try going 28 years or your whole life and women and girls ignoring you, rejecting you etc than comeback to me.

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  • You need to peak at the right time. This is why getting all the women when you're younger isn't always a good thing. What did you do before that you're not doing now?

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  • Maybe you were mindless fun for younger women but now lack the substance to attract and keep a more mature woman.

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