I can't get over a guy I messed things up with by refusing to date him, I thought time would work but he's been with his girlfriend around a year and a half now and it still hurts when I see stuff on my social network about them going on holiday in a few months etc. I've dated two guys since but they didn't compare, what can I do? :(
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I'm going to give you some invaluable advice, delete him entirely. To be honest, I'm not sure why he hasn't just taken you off his Facebook or whatever if he so happy with his new girlfriend. Some people do get a bit of a kick out of putting pictures up on Facebook so I wouldn't presume everything is as rosy with the two of them as they are making out. But they have been together a long time now. You will find someone. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE delete before you drive yourself further into the ground. All you are doing is allowing it to hurt, every time you start to heal, another picture will go up and you will go back to square one. Remove him from your mind and your memory, whatever you have to do. I know it is tempting, but what need have you got to see him on there. Do you still talk? Are you friends in real life.
You haven't done anything wrong, it just wasn't meant to be. Your time will come.
Move on, move up and start healing.0