Why guys get jealous when a single mother have to make time with their kids? Also, why is that when a single mother tells a guy that she a mother and after they dated for awhile that when he decide he don't like dating single mother?
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"Why guys get jealous when a single mother have to make time with their kids? "
Possible reasons :
1. Girls and guys can get jeolous when they perceive they have lost something valuable, in this case his time with you. The solution is to help him ease his insecurities. As a single mother, you may have to deal with jeolousy of your children against him, which I hope doesn't exist.
2. They are not his kids. Mankind shares many instincts with other animals on this planet, one of which is the instinct to ensure the survival of his/her genes. In wildlife, it is not unusal to see animals of both sexes killing the offsprings of his/her new mate.
Of course, we have morals and ethics to prevent that from happening among the human species. It is difficult to deny the possibility that those instincts still live, albeit the effort to suppress them. Fortunately, there are enough cases to show that NOT all stepfathers/mothers treat their other-half's offsprings with unkindness.
"why is that when a single mother tells a guy that she a mother and after they dated for awhile that when he decide he don't like dating single mother?"
Can be the same reason as (2). Initially s/he THINK s/he can handle it. Time tells him/her otherwise. All s/he has to do is think "Why should I bring up another man/woman's children when I can find a man/woman without children and bring up our own ?" One reason I can think of is, "These two are meant for each other, it is a matter of wrong timing that they didn't meet earlier." In that case, nothing can stand in their way.0