I have a 6 month old gorgeous baby boy. He lives with his mum so I get to see him couple of times a month.
We have been separated for about 14 months and have no intention of getting back with her. But we are amicable because of our son.
I have started dating other people and there are two girls I think I really like, but I want to get to know them properly first. Just to clarify I haven't slept with any of them. I want to get to know them as I want to settle down with someone.
I have been on one date with both of them and I have made plans to see them again soon.
The first date were both brilliant
But I haven't told them about my son yet, my mindset I want to get to know them first and see what type of person they are..it normally takes about 2-3 dates whether you know it's going to have potential.
So I'm thinking of giving it a couple of dates then telling them? If it goes that far.
Or should I tell them next time I see them?
Most Helpful Girl
Yes I think you need to reveal this early on. And here is why. Imagine the dates go great, you get to know one really well, you think she is fantastic, she thinks you're fantastic. Then you tell her you've got a son. She isn't keen on the idea. Not only have you lost that time, but you will end up getting hurt. You need to find out straight away whether they will be OK with this.2