-I asked her out in person
-She said yes
-Two days later I text her to confirm place and time
-She takes two days to reply, and says she can't make that day anymore (tbf, I know she had a good reason), can I make another night? She then adds, "should we invite some friends to join is too".
- I make it clear I wanted to spend time with just her, but said it can be a group thing if she's rather.
- Just over two days later (53 hours), I still have no reply.
Bit confused. Why is this? Is she nervous? She is a bit shy.
If it helps, she's 18 (nearly 19) and I'm 22.
Why is she taking ages to respond to my texts?
What Girls Said 1
She's a teen girl. Who knows maybe its a scheduling issue, money issue, she feels safer taking her gfs. Why are you texting? Why haven't you just called her and set everything up? Texting is so immature in this case...and your 22 date someone 21 and older to eliminate all this childish behavior. She might not be 18 maybe she's under age ever thought about that?0
What Guys Said 1
You're not confused, Guy. You know exactly what's going on but you refuse to acknowledge it.
She's not into you. Her taking two friggin days to confirm should have been your hint...no, etched in stone answer. Rule of thumb: if a woman is interested she will ALWAYS RESPOND promptly and will give you suggestions.
I just explained Occam's Razor to a another guy that posted on here... look it up. Also, I suggest you boost your confidence a little bit. None of us here needs to know exactly how many HOURS it's been since you texted her with no reply, Christ! Get a hobby brother. Buy an old motorcycle and start working on it.1
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