I have been dating this guy since the start of jan. He is pretty persistent on me, even though the last week or so we have had some little fights. I have not want to have sex yet, that's a small part of it, also just over things I Believe that we are incompatible over but he seems to think not and he is so persistent with me. I tried to end us talking/ dating/ texting/ seeing each other, I tried to be mature being like we can't give each other what we both need and want. so I can't give him the sexual relo basically he wants YET and he can't give me something I need (a trustworthy guy) he makes me feel insecure he has so many girls everywhere insta, fcbk etc. I just don't like it. He said that he is happy to be exclusive with me If that's what I need. why won't he ask me to be his gf? isn't that the logical thing to do? why just "exclusive" since he already said he was being exclusive anyway. He acts and wants me to act like we are in a relationship but why won't he ask me?!
Why won't he ask me to be his gf?
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No offense to you, actually all the respect to you as I've been in your shoes, but you're thinking immaturely if you expect him to blatantly ask you to be his ''girlfriend'', you should know better than to expect a grown-up reaction from most people :p.
Men will play mind games, but never say so much so that they don't get themselves caught in a net that they don't want to be in and yet they still say enough to get us women to shut up. That's exactly what he's doing, he's giving you what you asked for so that he can keep you on his line, he has you hooked, but at the same time he's not giving you exactly what you want so that he can remain in control.
My advice to you, is free yourself from that hook. He's being childish and it seems like he doesn't respect you enough, unless he has some kind of complex. You haven't really said much about his persona but it seems that even if he does have a complex, it's narcissism and he's not worth your time. Move on, he probably doesn't want to give you the title of his girlfriend because he wants sex. And you shouldn't lower your standards or settle for something sexual if you don't want to. Be stronger than that.
If eventually he comes back to check on why you've disappeared then take it way more slowly and don't ask for anything serious. In the meantime, start dating other guys. You'll feel relaxed once you finally get him out of your head, just play it cool from now on.0
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