Is it selfish to want someone for yourself, but even when you think it is for their own good? Is "selfish" the appropriate term? if you genuinely believe you are best for that person? You want them to be with you for their own sake?
Does that mean you aren't considering their feelings or perspective, and it therefore makes you "selfish"? Is it egotistical to think only you are the best option for them, and therefore is "selfish", or whatever the best term would be?
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No. Even if you are not best for them - if you like them you are allowed to hope, wish, dream, pray, seek, attempt to make them like you back. Just like there is nothing wrong with eating when you are hungry. Being selfish would be not allowing them to reject you or forcing them to like you against their will etc...2