Or is it up to the girl to initiate such conversations? At what moment so guys if ever desire to make a girl his girlfriend instead of some girl he is just seeing? How long does it take.
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I agree with some of the other answers that the expectation seems to be on a guy that he declare you two a couple. There is nothing wrong with a girl making her affections known. As for how long it takes - it is different for everybody. Since you are in your later 20's, I think that there is nothing wrong with you telling him of your affection and that you want him to be a bigger part of your life. If he feels the same way, I think he will return the affections. If he doesn't, you now have something to consider - will you two really be a couple?