Is it better to just be straightforward and say, "Hey, do you want to go grab drinks/go to a movie?" Or do I need to leave some mystery so he chases me? I don't want him to lose interest.
We have gone out on 4 dates but I have had to initiate plans. We have kissed/made out. I usually text him first during the week. He is extremely shy and never had a girlfriend. He has told his friends about us too.
Shy guys: What is the best approach? I want to keep him interested without throwing myself at him 100%.
Most Helpful Girl
It would be the best approach for a shy guy. If he is interested then he won't care if you throw yourself at him. Just be straightforward, all these little games put off shy and non-shy guys alike.
Say something like "i'm free this weekend, do you want to come round my place and watch a movie?" or something. If you want to have some fun with him then throw in a winky face or a smiley.0