Story short. I met this girl last year in math class at college. We made lots of eye contact, she purposely went out her way to catch up to me and talk twice. She had a boyfriend at the time, but still showed interest. Later found at one day she worked at my local pharmacy, she added me to Facebook the same day. I explained to her how when I asked her out and found out she had a boyfriend that I stayed away to respect her space and personal life/relationship.
Convo kind of died out, I hit her up a few months later, she was single and gave me her number. We were texting but she told me she was always busy and didn't text her again after she didn't respond.
SO - I got instagram two days ago, looked her up and added her. Found she had another boyfriend, I made a instagram video saying "I had a crush on this girl for 1 year to find out she has another boyfriend, FML."
She texts me hours later, saying "Ian?". I didn't know she kept my number, but she did. She's now slow again at texting, I asked her if she was still busy with work and school, she said honestly she was and never has down time.
I replied saying, Yeah, I remember how that goes, Congratulations though! You came across my mind" - No response 6 hours later. She didn't respond for a day, so I went out my way to send a 2nd text in a row cause I didn't last time. Again.. she does have a boyfriend. But I think we had a strong connection at the start when we first met?
Girl W/BF Texts me, Takes a while?
What Girls Said 2
Hey, i think you were just waiting for the right time and there's no time like that..
I wait hours for the right time to discuss things with my boyfriend and i never get to do that because he's always busy..
So take the bull by the horn (or something like that but not literally)
Busy or not she. still has time for IG and. Facebook so if she isn't giving you enough time or. replies it either means she's not interested or maybe. you need to try harder..
You were friends with her before she broke up with her first boyfriend and you didn't make a move?0
Maybe she was just flirting. I would ask her about her feelings, if you want. Although she seems to be busy usually. So I would try contacting her, but let her know that you want to talk to her and to just have her message you whenever she has a spare moment to chat.0
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