Ladies say a guy rejected ur initial attempt to pursue a relationship with him.. A relationship, like casual, cause committing to a full exclusive relationship wasn't possible at the time. Timing just wasn't right but you wanted the person and really just be with him but, let's just say minus a title of boyfriend and girlfriend. Anyway he politely reject it, but remain friends. You still attracted to him but the rejection kinda made u hide ur feelings
And you fight your feelings and you ignore things out of fear. So now things seem different with Ur friend, you notice the close attention he pays. The way he stares deeply in Ur eyes, u notice the lingering conversation him checking you out a lot and complementing you a lot. Teasing play fully, and at times little innuendos, and maybe light flirting.. now before he kinda rejected u he let you know he's attracted, and that he would pursue something if timing was different.
But now I'm getting a vibe, I mean I notice him mirroring me. Or he gets close leans forward when where talking and position his body towards me his chest inflates a bit when I'm around, and upon first laying eyes on me when entering a room I've notice he'll raise his eyebrows, or greet me with a big smile. I mean these are all good signs, but could it mean he's interested in knowing me better personally outside from our work. Ladies if a guy behavior is focused on u and he's as sweet as pie when it comes to you, help you with everything.
Would you risk the chance of pursing things again. Ya know like trying to find out if he's interested or ask him out as friends for a drink? What if the guy u loved rejected you originally but now showing some interest maybe. Would u leave it alone wait for him to pursue things further sense he rejected u before? Or leave it in the past and try to find out if he's changed his mind about u and possibly want to see how things go? In other words tell him what Ur still interested if he wants to try. observant.
Most Helpful Girl
Sweetie, don't say a word, just let things go for now. Everything is nice, nurturing. Don't upset that. Don't find yourself back at a nowhere point with him, when there just may be more than meets the eye.
Although he had told you his true feelings of Not wanting anything exclusive at the time, perhaps has given him some free reins to Just be "free" to do as he wants to with his own feelings right now, and at the same time, feels Safe to keep them locked inside his heart until He is ready to unlock the key to your heart once again.
If he wants to tell you anything, even that he wants a real relationship with you, believe me---you will be the first on his "heart chart."
Why fix what is Not broken? xx0
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