So me and my gf have been dating for almost four years. Last week she looked through my phone and got upset (no i didn't do anything wrong). find out that she has been looking through my phone every chance she got for the past 8 months.
I have no idea what to do.
no i did nothing different, she just stopped trusting me.
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If you have been dating for almost four years and the looking through the phone behavior just started 8 months ago, did something happen at that time? If she got upset after looking through your phone last week, something probably bothered her. Was that a call you have made or received from someone she doesn't like? Did she hear and see things about you and another girl? People don't normally stop trusting another person out of nowhere. There had to be a reason and only she can tell you. Or you might even have an idea but you just don't think it's a big deal. You have been together for four years, I think you should be able to have an open and honest communication with her to find out what's going on.0