Hi, I'm a freshman in college, and I'm having a massive crush on this senior guy in my class. We met each other this semester-so probably like a month ago. He asked me out for dinner few times, and we became really good friends. Our chats can go on and on. We just spent this weekend together at his place, and things got little sexual.
And this was when I started worrying about this relationship. I thought having sex after seeing for couple weeks or so was kind of fast (By the way, is it really fast? or is this normal?) He has never told me that he has feelings for me. I'm afraid that he's treating me as a friend with benefits, because I really like him. How should I figure out what he's thinking?
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You gotta talk to him about it. Real relationships have real conversations.
Having sex too fast is when you're having sex and you don't feel comfortable about it. If you feel that having sex a week after meeting someone is fine, then it's not too fast. If you feel that having sex after knowing someone a couple months is still too fast, then that's your opinion.
There's no predetermined definition of when is acceptable to have sex in a relationship, it's all dependent on what you believe the correct timing should be.0